This post is about never giving up on your dreams.....
Today, September 15, 2015, officially marks one year since I
moved from Massachusetts to Florida, to earn a Master’s degree in Entertainment
Business at Full Sail University. While
my entire journey through the degree program is documented on my Tumblr,
I would be remiss if I did not discuss the significance of this anniversary.
After calling Massachusetts home for our entire lives, my
brother and I filled a Budget truck with our personal possessions and embarked
on a 1,300-mile trek, spanning the entire East Coast, in search of new beginnings
and opportunities. However, my path to
Full Sail University started over a full year before my first day of class. In 2013, three years removed from completing
my undergrad at Worcester State University, I was living just outside of
Worcester, in Webster, MA, and working in telecommunications for the
Massachusetts Department of Corrections.
While the job was tedious, the pay was sufficient and I worked alongside
great people but it was not what I wanted for my life. I wanted something more. I needed something more. I needed a challenge. I needed to chase my goals, make my dreams
become reality, or, for the rest of my life, I would always regret not taking
the chance.
In High School, I was known by my personality and my
creativity. During senior year, I joined
our High School TV Station as the sports anchor for New England Sports. Many students thought I was the highlight of
the weekly broadcast. In my opinion, my
goal was to do the best I possibly could.
When we taped segments on Tuesday for a Friday broadcast, I took the
extra effort in previewing the next upcoming game. Instead of talking about “old news” in the
world of Sports, I focused on what was ahead because who wants to hear about
Monday night’s Red Sox win when they lost three games straight heading into a
weekend series with the Yankees. I enjoyed working in front of the camera, and
putting just as much work behind the camera.
I always wanted to get involved in the Sports and Entertainment
industry, but getting in would be the tough job.
For whatever reason, I was not sure what degree program I
wanted to pursue when I started at Worcester State. Therefore, I was undeclared. It turned out to be the best decision I ever
made because, after two years of completing all of my elective courses, I
decided to pursue Communications and finished my final two years with top-notch
grades, and a 3.4 GPA for the program. After graduating, it was difficult
finding a job in the industry. I had an
audition with the Cranberry Baseball League near Cape Cod, which went well, but
nothing ever materialized from that venture.
I continued my internship with Charter TV3 in Worcester and assisted on
selected events over two years after graduation, but career opportunities were
not available.
In the summer of 2011, I came across an advertisement about
getting involved in Pro Wrestling, and learning about the business end on a
grassroots level. This was the
opportunity I always wanted and was not going to pass up the chance to learn
and gain experience in the industry. I
drove over two hours to Bridgeport, CT, where I met Dan Mirade, promoter of the
Millennium Wrestling Federation, an independent wrestling company based out of
Melrose, MA, and worked my very first show that night as security. Three months later, I worked as a camera
operator for their anniversary show before sliding over to merchandising,
activations, and event promotions for the next two years. Even though the events were quarterly, I had
some of the best times working these events. I am always thankful to Dan for giving me
those opportunities and I remain in contact with him.
However, in true form to my stubbornness, I needed more. I needed a challenge. The gig with the MA DOC kept a roof over my
head, food on my plate, clothes on my back, money in my bank account, and made ends
meet, but I still was not satisfied. The
independent wrestling events, while fantastic and insightful, were not enough
for me either. I wanted to get back into
school, earn a Master’s degree, and push forward with my career goal of working
with WWE. I learned WWE rebranded their
developmental into NXT, and were filming television shows at Full Sail
University in Orlando. At the time, I
was not familiar with NXT or with Full Sail.
However, through extensive research on the school, I knew immediately
that this was the place for me. In
September 2013, I traveled to Orlando to partake in a “Behind The Scenes” tour
of the campus and was truly amazed at what I saw. Originally, I intended to start in the
Entertainment Business program in March 2014 but I had to postpone my start
date until September 2014. Again, that
decision worked out for the best.
On September 15, 2014, in the peak of Hurricane season for
Florida, I hopped out of our Budget truck into that wonderful humid air and
knew this is where I belonged. One week
later at Orientation, I met new faces and started networking with my future
colleagues in the Entertainment industry.
September 29, 2014, was the start of a degree program that is now just
three weeks away from culmination. All
the friends I made, all the networking I have done, all the opportunities I
have had, and all the experiences I lived, would not have happened had I
remained content, playing it safe in Massachusetts with a tedious job that made
ends meet. There is an old expression
that “good things happen to those who wait,” but I believe in “good things
happen to those who go out and earn it.” I took the biggest gamble of my life
in moving to Florida, to earn a Master’s degree, to chase my dreams, and
refusing to accept regret.
Looking ahead to day 366 and beyond, my mentality remains
the same. And, I would not want it any
other way.